Parenting as Stewardship
Parenting July 4th, 2007 We are the parents of four children, three girls and one boy. Needless to say, our home is an interesting place to live. Each day we walk with our children through joys, heartaches, laughter, chaos, and of course, seemingly endless homework assignments. We get to celebrate their victories and comfort and encourage them when they experience loss. It is an amazing experience that we have grown to appreciate more with every year that passes. One day, when they were all babies and I was not “feeling” particularly confident that I would know life without a double stroller, a double sized diaper bag, and rows of car and booster seats, the Lord stepped in. He reminded me that each of the souls we had been given to care for have a purpose and destiny before Him. He was indeed their heavenly Father. He reminded me that beyond physical reproduction and ensuing responsibilities, the spiritual responsibility of parenting was a reality just as powerful.
Parenting is more than an outcome of natural reproduction. It has a tremendous spiritual truth before God. It is far more important than picking names or buying clothes. It is more rigorous than getting up for 2 AM feedings, changing diapers, or even doing things to stimulate a child’s intellectual growth and development. Parenting is about effective spiritual reproduction.
God wants the earth to be filled with people who love Him, serve Him, and display His glory. Genesis 1:28 “And God blessed them, and God said, unto them, be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the seas, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.” Ultimately, we can tie parenting to fulfilling the plan of God.
As Christian parents we are to replenish the earth with people who are able to subdue and have dominion in it. Interestingly enough, natural reproduction provides a picture of this spiritual truth. This is not to say that biological parents are the only ones who can do the job effectively, it only shows the picture is established in heaven. We can all attest to the fact that many great parents never biologically produce children yet they still fulfill the plan and purposes of God. The key is not the natural but the spiritual truth. I am grateful that God’s fulfillment of His plan is never limited to the methods or the limited vision of man.
As Christian parents we must understand that we are the stewards of God’s property. Children are the investments of God. And though I am not a financial planner, I do know that all good investments produce a return. It stands to reason then that God is looking for a return on His investment in you. As a parent, be sure that you are giving adequate attention to your child’s spiritual growth. Take time and care to nurture them and demonstrate God’s truth in front of them. Help them experience prayer; teach them, not just about the rules but about the love of God. Be sure to give them a life where they learn of both His grace and mercy.
It is not enough to simply raise good children obedient to you; they must be raised to be God’s children. Live each day with a desire to keep the heart of your child sensitive to God’s touch so that when His Spirit calls, they will effortlessly respond and commit to Him. Deuteronomy chapter 6 gives us some initial instruction on parenting. We must teach them about God, His ways, His power, His plan, His love — everything; that through Him they become all they are destined to be. As a parent, you are the greatest influence in your children’s lives. Be a good steward over them and strive to uncover purpose in them.
Soon we will begin a great tele-class on Christian parenting. I am excited about this group and the powerful information and strategies that will be shared. I would like to personally extend an invitation to you to take part in the “Parenting on Purpose” tele-class. We will further examine the roles and responsibility of biblically sound Christian parenting, including parenting through ages and stages, discipline, and positioning your children to fulfill purpose.
Today, I invite you to take a moment and give God thanks for the confidence He has in your ability to be good stewards over and in the life of your children. I pray that your parenting experiences will bring you joy and satisfaction knowing that you are a good and faithful servant of God.
Be Blessed Today and Always,
MC






July 13th, 2007 at 10:44 am
Parenting is the hardest and the most important job
we do. I look around today and see young parents trying so hard to instill something positive and good in their children.Yet they may not be equipped spiritually to do so.
I remember my ‘Me Period’ when I was absent from church and had placed God in a ‘will call’ status.I had parenting responsibilities, yet I wanted to ‘be myself’ as well. My biggest fear was that I would fail my child in not doing everything I could (+ more)to make her life comfortable,honest and purposeful. I sent her to church, while I used Sunday as my cleaning/wash day.
One Sunday my 4-5 year old daughter came home and said, “Mommy I’ve been saved and washed in the blood of Jesus! I want to be baptized!”. I was floored. Of course we knew about God. Of course we had bibles in our house, played gospel music, said grace and prayers! Of course I taught her to be a person pleasing to God’s heart. I thought I made up WWJD! I use to ask it of her as a way of getting her to ‘think’ truthfully and with compassion. Yeah we knew the 10 Commandments and lived most of them. We were no better than, nor less important than any other human being. We were good people, now my child wanted to be BAPTIZED!!!
I look back on that now and I laugh thinking how afraid I was at the possibility that MY life would have to change when in reality it was HER SALVATION that was the issue. The next Sunday I was in ‘her’ church. I sought counsel from the Bishop and his wife, prayed, cried and truly struggled with the decision, not to let her be baptized; but, to change my life as well. I had forgotten my constant prayer (at that time) was,” Lord make me a better parent”. And He did (Is. 11:6)”And a child shall lead them”.
Yes, she was baptized and shortly after I committed my life to Christ as well.
As parents/guardians we are required to provide for our children physically,mentally and spiritally as well. It does not take all the material things we use as subtitutes to fill the void in our lives and the lives of our children to be happy. It takes Jesus.
One of the happiest days of my life was the Sunday my child brought me back to Christ.
July 13th, 2007 at 10:48 am
Correction…”in reality it was OUR SALVATION that was the issue.
March 24th, 2008 at 3:01 pm
Pastor Cade,
Parenting and stewardship, what an adventure. We have a son and a daughter that have just recently visited us for the second time here in Italy. Our young adults were as happy to see us as we were to see them.We had a lot planned to do during the short time that they were here. It was like trying to see the world in eighty days but all of Italy in one week. So as we travel down the autostrada to visit a beautiful part of Italy we are talking about a no compromise life for Christ to seek out there opinions. Mind you I have learned that no matter what age your children are you always have stewardship over them. What you are saying to them may not absorb all at once, but they are watching you. I am learning to live according to the word of God not because of what He has done for me but because of who He is. We have always instilled in them to follow God and not to be lead to the ways of the world because of our own experience. Really missing our young adults and haven’t seen them in a while, we wanted to shower them with gifts and love. Material things are good but I am learning, what we teach our children concerning the word of God is much more important. When they grow up and move out of your house and go to be on there own, after feeling that they have it all together or that there way is the best, just as we did when we were there age, we have learned as a parents that Gods word will not return to Him void. Pray!!!! I am learning how to live a consecrated life for God and still be free. Our young adults are open with us to share something that they may have experienced even though it may not sit well with us. We have learned to look at every situation as God being sovereign and having full control as well. We will continue to live according to the word of God and let them know that He is love and He loves them. We will count it all joy as we parent our young adults that God has allowed my husband and me to have stewardship over. We will continually remind them that they have a purpose to fulfill to glorify God. It is for our freedom their freedom ,and the next generations to come. Gods mercy is new every day not just for me, but also for my children and there children, and their’s. As I look back over my life I an in awe that God has chosen my husband and I to have stewardship over not one but two souls. What an awesome responsibility that is. I thank God for our two beautiful young adults that He has placed in our care to uncover there purpose. God will get the glory out of every experience of our lives being faithful unto Him. Pastor through your teachings I am learning how to be a fully integrated Christian as well as a better parent having stewardship over these two lives. I have learned that no matter the distance we are a great influence in there lives.
December 29th, 2009 at 10:37 am
Pastor Cade,
Thank you for the message…10 years ago, I had one child, now I am the father of five. The challenges of parenting are never ending, but so are the joys of having, as you said, the responsibility of uncovering the potential and purpose God has placed in each of them. Two of are children are autistic, but they are the two that bring me the most joy and laughter (please don’t tell the other three), but the things most people find weird and strange about them are the things that fill my heart will love and joy. Maya, who’s actual age is 4 and her autistic age is about 2, just woke up and came downstairs, laid at my feet to be close to me makes me feel like I was put on this earth just for her. I believe she is someone God wants to use to change the face of autism. Anyway, thanks for the Word…Peace & Blessing to you, Keith and your children